This is a bit of a rant and so I apologize beforehand.
One thing I seem to have noticed on the internet is a lot of misogyny. Women are just money hungry, air headed, skanky whores who take advantage of poor hard working decent men constantly.
On Marriage
Don’t ever get married because the woman will divorce your ass and take all your stuff! Beware of a woman proposing marriage because it just means she’s after your money!
Seriously, stop going after the bimbo, princess-wannabes and you shouldn’t have a problem. If you’ve been with someone for awhile then you should know if they’re some money hungry whore or not. If they are - then get out of the relationship.
If you don’t - then it’s your fault for losing everything. Don’t marry a girl if you’re afraid that she’s going to take all your money. That’s just asking for trouble.
And don’t you dare think all of us are like that. I’m so sick of hearing about how all women are just after money. I, for one, do not like spending other people’s money. I feel guilty for just asking for a dollar. And I do my best to payback as quickly as possible.
Believe it or not - not all of us girls are after your bank account. If all the girls you know are after money then you’re hanging out with the wrong crowd. Maybe stop picking up flirty little socialites with designer clothes, no degree, and a ‘I am special’ mentality.
Maybe try paying attention to the girls that have stable jobs and probably aren’t hanging out in clubs shoving their implants in your face while gushing about their new shoes and pretending to be Paris Hilton. You know, the girls that don’t need your bank account because they already have their own.
Seriously, there are a lot of great girls out there who aren’t out to use men. You just never hear about us because we aren’t causing any problems. So no one talks about us.
But in no way are all women after a man’s money.
Also, if you don’t like those Princess Socialites that are after big bank accounts - then stop encouraging them. Stop giving them all your attention. Stop hooking up with them.
Because you’re just teaching younger girls that this is what men like. They see men chasing after all these bleach blond, big boobed bimbos and so that’s what they try to become. Stop teaching girls that being ‘hot’ makes up for lack of character and girls might stop becoming these selfish princesses.
As for expensive wedding rings - that varies girl to girl. I like diamonds and think they’re pretty and all but I don’t really wear jewelry. If I had a wedding ring then I wouldn’t want it to be heavy or flashy. Just something simple that won’t get in the way. If I don’t get a wedding ring - then that’s fine too. I don’t need a ring to be married.
As for people who cry ‘don’t get married at all!’ - I’m 50/50 on the deal.
Do not marry someone if you’re not sure you can stay with them. However, if you plan on staying with someone for the long haul then I would suggest getting married for legal reasons. If anything were to ever happen to you (or them) then as a spouse you get a say-so in things. If you’re not married then - as far as I know - you have no say in their medical treatment. The hospital would have to get in contact with their parents or something. But I’m not sure because I’m not married.
But yeah, getting married is your way of telling the government ‘if something happens to me, this person is my spouse and is in charge‘. If marriage weren’t required then your long time roommate might try to claim your fortune if you die. If no one ever married then your roommate wouldn’t need much proof to try and claim everything. They could just make up some story about how the two of you were together and the proof would be the fact that you lived together.
So until there is a better way to confirm who’s in charge when something happens - then I think marrying a long time partner isn’t a bad idea. Just make sure you talk about everything beforehand.
Of course, if you don’t want to marry the person, then don’t marry them. If your girlfriend asks you to marry her don’t say ‘yes’ unless your really want to. Or else your marriage probably will end up in a messy divorce.
And keep in mind that some women are just as scared and have just as much to lose. This isn’t the 1700s when women had nothing. These days girls have jobs too and some women are quite successful.
I’m sure there are plenty of successful women who have to deal with sleazy men trying to snag an easy life.
On Women in General
Okay, what is it with all women being bitches and whores? She broke your heart, she’s a bitch. She wouldn’t let you watch the ball game, she’s a bitch. She wouldn’t put out, she’s a bitch. She does put out, she’s a whore.
There are so many times on the internet where I’ve come across some story where a girl might have done something mean/bad and everyone goes on and on about how’s she’s a bitch and all women are bitches.
Then I’ll come across some story about say.. a guy cheating and everyone goes on and on about how if the girl wasn’t such a bitch he wouldn’t have had to cheat on her. If she wasn’t so fat and ugly he wouldn’t have to cheat on her. If she wasn’t this, that, and the other - he wouldn’t have to cheat on her.
Everyone makes it sound like it’s always the girls fault and the poor poor guy had no other option. He’s a great guy, really! His girlfriend/wife is just a bitch!
Not to say that some women aren’t but in my experience guys can be just as bitchy, fat, and ugly as girls. It’s not always the guys fault, but it’s certainly not always the girls fault either.
And what is with the complete disrespect of women as fellow humans? I’m sorry but it is not my job to shut my mouth and open my legs.
I know it’s not true but sometimes I get the overwhelming feeling that men see women as brainless, animated sex toys. They don’t want us to think or have opinions they just want to fuck us then throw us away.
Then they get all bitchy and defensive when girls disrespect them.
I thought we were supposed to be past all this sexism? There is more to a women then her boobs and vagina.
Now like I said, I know it’s not everyone but it’s just the feeling I get sometimes when I’m on male dominated sites. So don’t get all defensive and iffy about how ‘all men aren’t like that…!’ Because I know.
I know that some women are air headed, useless, money hungry whores. But not all of us. It’s not fair that all of us females are stuck with that image just because some girls are like that.
You don’t like when we stereotype you men so don’t do the same to us.
Sorry for all this, but I hate feeling like I’m nothing but a bitch and a tool for mens pleasure just because I have a vagina.
Okay, I think I’m done. This is just something that’s been bothering me after reading comments at places like Digg (or any other male dominated site). If you’re one of those good, decent guys - then I’m not talking about you! So don’t get all defensive.
I love guys, don’t get me wrong, but there’s only so much female bashing I can deal with in a short period of time before it gets to me.